Telling your parents the news of your unexpected pregnancy can feel like the weight of the world is on your shoulders. There is no easy way to go about the process, but there are some steps to alleviate some of the pressure. We’re here to walk with you as you determine your next steps.
Be Sure You’re Pregnant
A significant first step to planning how to share the news with your parents is getting clarity about your pregnancy for yourself. Be sure you’re pregnant and that your pregnancy is developing.
Once you’ve received a positive pregnancy test, your next step is an ultrasound. An ultrasound confirms vital details of your pregnancy, including:
- Pregnancy viability (whether your pregnancy has a heartbeat and is progressing)
- Pregnancy location (confirm if the location of your pregnancy is in the uterus)
- How far along you are (also known as gestational age)
An ultrasound can also alert you to potential pregnancy complications, such as miscarriage or ectopic pregnancy. Both of these pregnancy complications are a loss of a pregnancy and require immediate medical attention and treatment.
Have a Pregnancy Plan in Place
How you prepare to tell your parents about an unexpected pregnancy is almost as important as actually sharing the news.
While your pregnancy plan isn’t permanent, having some sort of plan in place will give you more confidence when talking with your parents. It will show responsibility and that you’re taking initiative.
Consider who may support you in your pregnancy decision, what pregnancy options you’re leaning toward, and what may be your best next step.
Choose the Right Time
Timing is essential when sharing such a major life change with your parents. Choose a time and place that is most convenient for your parents.
Pick a time when they are off work and most relaxed, like on a weekend or after work. Sharing the news at home or in another private place may be best so they feel comfortable reacting and responding.
Your parents may have insight into your unique situation. Do your best to remain honest and open. We want to note that the final pregnancy decision is ultimately yours.
Free Pregnancy Services
Be sure of where your pregnancy stands with free and confidential pregnancy testing and limited ultrasound at Pathway to Hope. We can help you understand your pregnancy and your pregnancy options.
Schedule a free appointment today. You can do this.
