It can feel complicated to figure out how to share the news of your pregnancy while wanting to end your relationship with your partner. No matter what happens, know that you are not alone.
You may hesitate to share your pregnancy news. While we always recommend being as honest as possible with your partner, there could be safety reasons for your hesitations. Keep reading to learn how to share the news if it’s safe.
Are You Safe?
Your hesitations about sharing the news with your partner could be due to your safety and well-being. You do not have to tell your partner if this is the case. It’s vital to protect yourself from physical, mental, and emotional abuse.
If you feel unsafe in your pregnancy situation with your partner, talk to the National Domestic Violence Hotline for immediate help and support. You are not alone.
Sharing the News
If you are in a safe situation and are thinking of breaking things off with your partner, he still deserves to know about the pregnancy. Your pregnancy decision will affect his future, too, no matter which path you choose.
We understand this is not an easy conversation, but you might feel relieved getting it off your chest. Going through an unexpected pregnancy with your partner doesn’t mean you have to stay together.
To tell him about your pregnancy, we recommend choosing a time and place where you both feel most comfortable.
If you also want to break up in addition to sharing your news, having those conversations in one sitting can be challenging. Use your best judgment as you talk about your pregnancy, and see how the conversation unfolds. Only you can decide the best time for these discussions.
Get Support Today
Maybe you need to speak with someone before sharing the news with your partner, or you don’t want to share the news of your pregnancy alone. Talk with someone you trust, like a close friend, family member, or mentor. At Pathway to Hope, we can provide support and early pregnancy services.
You can confirm your pregnancy at your first appointment with a pregnancy test. If you receive a positive pregnancy test with us, we also can offer a free limited ultrasound so you can determine your pregnancy options. Our caring team also provides free consultations to discuss pregnancy options and our available resources and support.
You are not alone. We’re here to walk with you. Schedule your free and confidential appointment today.
